Rings of Relationship….
24 Oct 2011 1 Comment
in Observations Tags: relatonship
Relationship phenomena starts with yourself. What do you feel about yourself ? Is your mind and actions in sync ? Do you feel guilty or proud of yourself. Then when two people relate, it reaches another dimension. What is the synergy between the two ? How much you agree and how smoothly you agree to disagree ? What can be shared and how much you are comfortable to share ? Will a secret between the two remain as a secret between the two till death. As soon as there it moves to ring of three, it gets even more complicated. You have to relate to 2 and each of them also relates to 2 people. You may have control between you and the other two but very less between the other two. As the ring grows, it exponentially adds to various possibilities. No wonder two people are most comfortable than a group of many. But the most important relationship is with yourself.
Jyothi Ram
Oct 24, 2011 @ 10:41:32
CK,
Well said. I also felt like adding a few points.
The purpose of relationship is to create something greater than we can create alone. Not because of any deficiency or incompleteness in us, but because each of us is unique, with our own talents and abilities, and in partnership we increase the efforts and talents available for creating something meaningful together. All relationships, whether romantic, creative, or professionally-based, can be powerful partnership for personal growth. In partnership we harness the power of union. It is important to choose our partnerships consciously. Sometimes forged quickly during times of need, we may find ourselves rushing into unions with perhaps not the clearest intentions. . If we can stay clear about what we want and what we need in a relationship, while staying grounded and remembering that we are our own source of happiness and fulfillment, we can create partnerships that support and enhance the best of who we are.
Everyone in our lives is a mirror reflecting back the parts we love and dislike about ourselves. If we have the courage to recognize our reflections in each other, we can grow through our relationship. A partnership that offers both acceptance of who we are and an opportunity for personal transformation can be fertile ground for growing a healthy, lasting union. When we find this kind of partnership, we are more likely to want to keep it, invest in it, and nurture it.
Together we are stronger because our personal power is multiplied by two. Through partnership we experience the joys of working, living, and loving together. This grows exponentially……with 2 and 2 and 2…