New Year brings people together…
31 Dec 2011 1 Comment
in Observations Tags: New Year
The beauty of a new year celebration is that it is non religious, non political and is the only common celebration right around the world. People do live on hope and this day gives that. People who had problems in the past feel that the New Year will bring them good luck and so make the future joyful. People who are happy hope to become happier with more positive changes. Wishes are shared to make everyone feel positive. There is a strong bonding which is created among people who will carry them forward effortlessly in the coming year. The earth has started its new journey around the sun and will soon bring in the spring needed for all humans to increase their positive energy. Happy New Year to all beings.
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Harmless Communication can also be harmful…
30 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Ideas for Life Tags: Communication
When there is a pain/confusion created due to a communication to one of the parties, mostly it is because one person mentions something with no intended harm and the other takes it as a devious assault. One has to be very careful while communicating. It should not hurt anyone around even unintentionally. The timing of the communication and judging how others take it is also critical to make it harmless. It is also important for the receiver to carefully analyse what is communicated and not get hurt. Even harsh words can be ignored, brushed away or taken in a positive manner. Both the communicator and receiver is responsible to ensure that there is no pain.
Letting Go…
29 Dec 2011 3 Comments
in Ideas for Life Tags: Child, Parent
One of the emotionally challenges for Mothers and Fathers is to let go of their close monitoring and deep attachment of their children as they grow slowly into young adults. The children in their late teens are also challenged to let go of their dependency of their parents as they looking for a way of being accepted as an adult in the society. This primarily means they are looking at taking their own decisions, do not want obvious advice, do not expect any forced thinking from their parents. This leads to a kind of emotional blackmail kind from both sides which can be disturbing. It is critical that parents move from a protector role to a discussion partner role and the children move from a dependent role to an independent role for both to move on in life.
Learning as a habit…
28 Dec 2011 1 Comment
in Entrepreneurship Tags: learning unlearning
One of the traits of successful people is their habit of learning life long. Leaning continuously helps you un learn past prejudices and leads you to closer to reality on a subject. As one knows only what wants to know, it creates a barrier for further learning. One can learn from thinking out of the box, questioning your own past learning’s, and also from anyone and everyone around you. One can even learn from people you don’t seem to vibe with. A good learner sheds his ego, starts with an innocent mind and proceeds to analyse then consolidate what he has experienced. Active Learning is a worthwhile habit for all to lead a happy life.
Unique Demography of India..
27 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Observations Tags: Demography
India has more than 50% (600 Million) of its population below the age of 25 and more than 65% (780 Million) hovering below the age of 35. It is expected that, in 2020, the average age of an Indian will be 29 years, compared to 37 for China and 48 for Japan. A unique situation where India has a potential to be the global skill capital of the world. Possibilities of the youth making a difference to our politics is real as they have the numbers to make appropriate changes under democracy as anyone above 35 years are part of a minority in India. India also needs 700 million jobs to keep this population engaged in their lives else it could turn into a demographic disaster. More entrepreneurs to create more jobs is the need of the next decade.
Soul Connects…
26 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Mysteries of Life Tags: Soul
Many times in our lives, we connect easily with people for the first time. They seem to appear from nowhere and we find ourselves drawn to their energies. Our unseen and unheard souls, energies, destiny, fate seem have their own way of connecting with people. It is almost as if this has been programmed for our lives. They also seem to have a purpose in bringing a fresh view of your life. These can be life changing triggers which make a positive difference to the rest of your life. One needs to be open to these triggers and absorb them as it was meant to be. People who are open to such triggers to become more evolved human beings and are willing to change for the better.
Want to be Proud of India…
25 Dec 2011 1 Comment
in Observations Tags: Corruption, India
Everyone wants to be proud of our country but how many of us want to bring the change needed for us to be proud of India. We live in a country which is mostly governed by the mantra called corruption. Corruption drives most of our politicians, bureaucrat, businessmen, and people at large. We live, breath and survive on corruption. Our majority is poor because of corruption. Our majority of rich are richer with the aid of corruption. Our schools. Colleges, hospitals, police, courts have absorbed corruption as an acceptable means to make money. It is time we first take pride in making the changes we need before calling ourself a proud Indian.
Space and Time
24 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Observations Tags: sun earth lifespan time infiinite
Close your eyes for a few minutes and let your mind travel, visualize the size of your location on earth, the earth itself , sun, solar system, galaxy and towards the infinity beyond and then open your eyes to see how small and insignificant you are in this vastness. Now look at expanse of infinite time before your birth and after your death and notice that your life span is so small and insignificant. It certainly starts to make sense that within this short life span which you have been given free, you can rather focus on being happy and make others happy than spreading negative thoughts and actions.
Happiness
23 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Mysteries of Life Tags: happiness sadness
Every human being is always looking for this emotion all his life. A Happy person finds happiness is everything what he does. A Sad person will always find ways to be sad. The choice is yours.
The trick is to increase the amount of time in your day to be happy. Sadness will find you but you need not seek it. If it finds you, delve on it for as short a time as possible and also look for happiness in that sadness.
Birth and Death
22 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Mysteries of Life Tags: body mind birth death
What we have is the time between our birth and death of which we need to sleep for one-third of it. We have also been given a free body which has its own life and death, a free mind to store and analyse what we experience and emotions which we can use for making ourselves happy and then sharing it to others around us. The body dies, memories die, mind also dies along with your death. You may want to maximise the time when you are happy during your life. A person who is able to keep himself happy under all circumstances is the most happiest person on earth.
Reacting to Anger…
21 Dec 2011 Leave a Comment
in Ideas for Life Tags: anger
To get angry is human but different people react in different ways when they get angry. Some vent their feelings talking to themselves or anyone near by to remove it. Words in anger are mostly out of sync and can cause more damage. Some people react violently and become physical against the source of anger. Some get stressed, absorb it through their own system and lead themselves into ill health. Some become silent, calm down, understand the reasons and find a way out to eliminate it for the moment and also make positive changes for the future. The choice is yours but your genes and attitude in life also influence you.
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